One adult star shared advice on how men can please women in bed sėxually – and says it works ‘every time’.
Riley Reid, 32, from the US, said men often orgasm during sėx, while a lot of women don’t.
She also claimed a lot of ladies only seem to be able to orgasm on their own, instead of with a partner.
With that in mind, she shared some tips to try and close this ‘orgasm gap’. Firstly, Riley said to please a woman in bed, you need to ‘start outside of the bedroom’.
Writing for Camsoda, she said: “The baseline of making any woman orgasm starts with you and how you take care of yourself.
This will extend to how you care for her inside and outside of the bedroom. Before you’re even thinking about f**king her there are some things to consider. No one wants a dirty, lazy lover!”
Riley said hygiene was her number one tip when it comes to pleasing your female lover.
She wrote: “Good hygiene is the bare minimum, but to us women, this says you know how to take care of yourself and we won’t have to play mummy to you. (Needing your partner to mum you is a huge turn-off and quick route to kill the vibes).”
As well as showering, Riley recommended ‘staying well-groomed’, and claimed men should have clean fingernails and a fresh mouth. She also said guys should keep their body and health in shape, as well as have a fresh home and car.
“Not only is it a great reflection of your care for yourself, if I’m going to be in those spaces (particularly naked), I want them fresh, clean and sėxy,” she said. “You’ll also be more confident when you’re taking care of yourself.”
As well as keeping things clean, Riley said men should get to know their partner’s fantasies. “The fastest way to know how someone likes to be f**ked is to ask them,” she said.
“Curious and caring communication about our likes, dislikes, deepest desires and darkest fantasies, and try to get to know these things both within the context of your relationship and as it pertains to you and for her as an individual independent of you.”
sėxting can also add spice to the relationship, according to the adult star – with her reminding guys to focus on their partner and her needs instead of themselves.
One all that’s been done outside the bedroom, Riley said it’s time to ignite the spark inside it too.
For this, she recommended lots of foreplay as well as mutual masturbation, which she described as “hot”. Dirty talk can also ignite romance too, according to Riley, as can pleasuring your woman with toys.
The adult star also told men to ‘be selfless’ and give their partner oral sėx regularly.
However, she said emotions also matter too, as she continued: “Satisfying a woman emotionally is the difference between always pleasuring her and somehow managing to feel distant during sėx.
“Show that you are conscious of us and want to connect to by making eye contact throughout, ask for permission or consent when doing new things, hold hands and make sure there’s a lot of kissing.
We want to feel like the only one you want to touch, tickle and lick!”
Overall, Riley said the best thing men can do to please a woman in the bedroom is to ‘make it about them’. She concluded: “The best way to pleasure her in bed is to make it about her.
Can you find pleasure in getting her off? Even better. We all know you’re gonna bust a nut, so put the focus on her physically, mentally and emotionally.”
