After some time my ex would sleep with his phone in his pocket – weird red flag but I never said anything.

When I noticed he wouldn’t even pull up his phone in front of me I knew something was up.

One night it slipped out of his sweats and I woke up with it near my legs.

I was just going to put it on the charger honestly but I saw he had a bunch of notifications and messages from a dating app.

Man, I wanted to slap him awake. But I didn’t.

So I created a profile using a friend of mines pictures (that he never met and I had her approval).

She was his type 100% and I knew he loved blue eyes. So when we matched like I knew we would, we got to chatting.

We talked for about a week before I suggested meeting up. Flirting, sexual stuff. He told her (me) that he was single and lived with a friend.

So I suggested him paying for a hotel room so we could f-ck. He said he would. We picked a spot.

Mind you I paid for everything because he was unemployed after losing his job. He drained my savings account over the year with manipulation.

“We’re family, we take care of each other when we’re in tough spots” he would say whenever I told him I didn’t have extra money.

I paid my student loans, all bills of a one bedroom, and the food.

This boy had the ballsack to ask me for money in person. That his mom’s bday was coming up and he wanted to buy her something nice.

So I gave him $50. Just because it was hilarious at this point. I still think about the smile on his face in that moment.

That weekend he left. Said he was going to his mom’s and that he’d probably stay the night.

I kissed him goodbye and told him to have a great time. Then I packed all of his stuff and left it outside.

I live in a US city so it went fast. Got the locks changed. He messaged me a few times on the app- I told him I was running late bevause I wanted to “look perfect” but I was coming and so sorry!

My friend also sent me some sexy pictures to send him that didn’t fully include her face (she’s a real one). I even talked him into jerking off and sending me a video.

Then after making him sit until about 1am. I messaged him on the dating app a picture of his belongings being rummaged through by a homeless man.

And to enjoy his stay in a hotel. As soon as my phone rang, I blocked his number and went to bed.

He was outside of my door the Monday I came home from work. Ugly crying. Begging. Telling me he was homeless and had no where to go.

When I wasnt having it – he got angry per usual. Once he started grabbing and trying to get into my apartment, I called the police.

Filed a restraining order because he did threaten my life (and my pets!) for putting him out. Found out he ended up moving a few hours away where his only family is – and has a job!