I was my family’s “walking atm” for 35 years. but this christmas, i didn’t sign a check. i signed the death warrant on their fake lifestyle.
My name is Tovabel, and for thirty-five years, I was the invisible ink on my family’s balance sheet. To my parents and my brother, I wasn’t a daughter or a sister; I was a contingency plan—a walking, breathing emergency fund that never demanded interest. I was the reliable one, the quiet shadow who only received…